Balboa Park, San Diego

Following on from my San Diego post. One of my favourite places in Central San Diego was Balboa Park. When I got into my first ever Uber to Balboa Park, I initially thought it would be a park with lots of trees and grass; and nothing more. When I got there I was pleasantly surprised that it was more than just trees and grass. There was over 20 attractions, from science exhibitions to San Diego Zoo. In addition to Museums, Gardens, Art installations and Eateries. Unfortunately it was really difficult to take pictures due to the multitude of other people who were there. Nevertheless, it was a wonderful place for all ages, and you can spend a whole day there, without even realising it.


I Have Completed My Masters Degree

I recently finished my masters in Forensic Psychology. This has probably been the hardest thing I have ever done. For the reason that it was full time and thus made balancing all aspects of life quite difficult. Additionally, there is no financial help from the government at this level and it was not possible to get a scholarship. Nonetheless I have passed every single assignment within all my modules with flying colours and thus I am hoping for a merit overall. we do not officially find our overall grade till February 😩.

I wanted to share what life lessons that I have learned from completing this course, and they are as follows:

One of the best feelings in the world is finishing something you initially thought you could not do.
A masters is not for everyone, its extremely hard. Especially one that focuses on morbid complex issues. My lecturers always said "If you aren't finding it hard or/and stressful then you are not doing this right". With that said, the sense of accomplishment is all worth it.

Completing a Masters does not mean that I now know what the capital of Mongolia is.
People presume that just because you have a masters then you must be extremely knowledgeable about everything in the world. I am certainly not, as I'm only an expert in the area of forensic psychology. I am horrendous at geography. Additionally contrary to popular belief, psychologists can not read minds - the though I hope to learn one day.

Having a masters gives you the confidence to go for higher paying jobs
This is pretty self explanatory, however our course emphasised that work experience is equally as important as a degree.

Deadlines are helpful organisation tools.
Having a non adjustable goal to work towards may seem daunting at first,  but at least you can use it to prioritise your time. This has also proved to be beneficial in everyday life.

You just can't win them all.
I gave each assignment the same high degree of effort, whether it was 20%, 40%, 60%, 80% or 100% of the mark. And still, there were some which I didn't get the grade I wanted, and that was fine. I just moved on and focused my efforts of doing the next one. I found that this helped with being resilient and staying motivated when faced with negativity.

Having a MSc at the end of your name
It just looks so pretty. A lot of blogs say this can come off as pretentious or arrogant. My question is, when did it become a negative to be proud of something you have worked so hard for?

People who find out that you have done a masters...
They feel the need to explain to you why they never went to university - when you never even asked them why in the first place. This one I still don't fully understand, each to their own and god for us all. Going to university is not everything. Not everyone wants to go into higher education or can go into higher education, so it's not my place to judge.

Your way of thinking changes how you approach things in life.
I am now very critical of what I read online, in newspapers, what people tell me and even some scientific research. For example, companies can hire scientists to conduct research that will support their narrative that something is good or bad for you. When really said companies should also report opposing findings, so we can make our own mind up about things.

Whilst being critical has a negative connotation, it's really a tool to positively or negatively appraise something in equal measures. I think, and I hope most people think that we need to be more critical of news especially since the rise of fake news.

Its not all negative though, I am now more open minded about everything in life, because anything can happen even if we can not prove it.

Personal and professional development

In my course they really drilled into us what we can actually do with our degree, and the steps I need to take to get a job with my degree (within module one). Additionally I got plenty of opportunities to speak to people in the field I would like to go in. People who were newly qualified as well as those have been in the game for years. With in the first modules that you complete. I found this really helpful and so did my classmates, as this kind of information is not available at undergraduate. This also gave us enough time to get a refund, if we decided that the degree was not for us.

With all that said, I am glad to be out of education for years to come!

*P.S. Merry Christmas!


San Diego, Califonia ♥

San Diego Harbour Skyline   

I recently visited California and it was absolutely amazing! Though getting there was very tiring, as the flight from Heathrow to San Diego, connecting in Philadelphia was just over 18 hours. So it was quite nice that our hotel the Rancho Bernardo Inn (in Rancho Bernardo town) was a nice, secluded and away from city traffic. Which allowed for lots of peaceful and indulgent sleep and visits to the spa. Additionally the hotel had a number of beautiful restaurants so there was never a boring meal.

The only downside to this beautiful scenic hotel was that it was a 30 minute drive to downtown San Diego. We actually did not know this when we arrived at the San Diego airport, we got a $90 taxi to the hotel; When an Uber was $22-$30. The reason why I mention price differences is that America is not as affordable as it used to be, since GBP fell due to brexit. So the last thing you want to do is waste money on travel when you could be having fun in The Gaslamp District or Ocean Beach with beautiful weather that ranged from 20°C to 28°C (during the day, and pretty mild in the evening). Keeping in mind this was still in winter!


Downtown San Diego itself was beautiful, it was hot and the people were so friendly. Though my favourite places were Balboa Park and The Gaslamp District. The latter was a beautiful quarter full of bars and restaurants spread across 4th, 5th and 6th street. With Horton Plaza Westfield mall on 4th street. In addition to Embarcadero Marina Park located at the end of the Gaslamp Quarter. Whereas Balboa Park was a surprise within itself.

I had a wonderful time in San Diego, though I would have to say that I preferred Los Angeles. 

Embarcadero Marina Park

View of Rancho Bernardo Golf Club from the Avant Restaurant - Where Breakfast was Served
View of Some the Ranch Estate

Giant Sangrias - These were Available From Any Place That Served Alcohol

Atop Embarcadero Marina Park

Embarcadero Marina Park
One of the New and Old Navy Ships Visible at San Diego Habour 
San Diego Harbour

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